Guides

For Partners

How partners can use Kaia, coordinate fairly, and stay in sync without one person carrying all the setup.

Copy & send

Starter messages

These are intentionally written like real texts, not like commands.

Split the week

Can you help us split this week more evenly?
Kaia looks at the load + suggests a swap.
Text this to Kaia

Ask about balance

Who's carried more this week?
Kaia gives an aggregate readout in 1:1 only.
Text this to Kaia

Privacy and permissions

  • Private 1:1 messages stay private. Group chat requests are visible to the group.
  • Admins can usually see and edit shared dashboard records. Other family roles may see less.

Need more help?

Ask Kaia first when the issue is user-fixable.

If you're not sure what to text next, ask Kaia in Messages and she'll usually walk you through it.